Betty Dodson, of course, is the author of the insanely bestselling book , and the consummate orgasm and masturbation guru since the '70s. It's an interesting quandary, trying to decide how to sit naked in a room full of strangers. Betty welcomed us and began sharing some of her philosophy about sex and orgasms and vulvas (not vaginas) and bodies. After a few hours we took a short break, and then it was time. At the same time, I simply could not stop smiling to myself and thinking in my head about how nuts this was, all of us naked and peering between the legs of this famed octogenarian. The next day we stripped down and circled up without pause.You might call her a founding mother of women's sexual liberation. "Come on, let's get undressed," Carlin said, like it was the most normal thing in the world. Betty went first, and then, one by one, we sat next to her and spread our legs as we looked into the mirror with Betty and admired our pussies. "Play is the most important thing when you're little," Betty explained.If you're breasts are large enough, try licking your nipples yourself, your breasts are a wonderful erogenous zone that should not be ignored during any type of sex play.There is not right or wrong way to masturbate, you can do it totally naked or explore your body with your clothes still on. She was almost naked, wearing a thin, white tank that barely covered her behind. Carlin Ross is the business partner of famed sex educator Betty Dodson. More women filled the room, and we all began to take our seats. Although she has taken a hiatus recently, Betty began doing these workshops in the '70s. Period.) We started out by going around the circle, talking about how we felt about our bodies and our orgasms, and then moved on to some breathing exercises. Like so many other moments during the workshop, it felt tribal and ancient, as if we were gathered in the red tent to be gifted with the wisdom of our sister elder. Having other women look at you, really look at you, is a powerful experience.
Raped teens, daughters embedded on rape videos and photo galleries.And if you're there for one of Betty's famous "Body Sex" workshops, it is. Betty would point out certain features and "style" each of our pussies for a photo. (" Dodson," as Carlin affectionately calls her, and as we began to refer to her too.) "A post-modern pussy," she continued. "You don't get enough of it when you're an adult." And then, without any ado, Carlin, whom Betty affectionately refers to as her "stunt cunt," demonstrated Betty's "rock and roll" method of masturbation while Betty directed and commentated.I followed her back to the vestibule at the entryway of Betty's Madison Avenue apartment, and I slipped out of my yoga pants and tee as she slipped out of her tank. I have a doughnut pussy, she told me as I sat with my knees falling open and my pussy lips spread wide. The method includes vulvar massage, pelvic rocking, focused breathing, a vibrator for the clit and -- most importantly, to my mind -- slow penetration with Betty's Vaginal Barbell.Or you can stroke it, rub it or gently pinch it- it's all about personal preference so whatever works for you.Turn your boring shower on a morning into and exciting masturbation session and use the shower head and its different pressures to get yourself off!