She’s forced to lead a double life as she sneaks around her lover’s family and schedules trysts when he’s supposedly away on business. If he divorces his wife, the children will be living in two households, losing stability and friends.
The mistress may console herself by saying the marriage had already soured.
Married men also may be viewed as more mature and experienced, able to offer more emotional and financial support. Married men seldom leave their wives, regardless of what they tell their mistresses.“I didn’t know he was married when we first met,” one explained. It was impossible to back out.” Whatever the cause, the outcome is the same. They have too much at stake, too many personal and financial irons in the fire.Said a second: “He complained that he was so unhappy with his wife. The other woman is mixed up in a relationship she’s not proud of. The other woman’s behavior can have a disastrous impact on his kids. No matter what he says about his spouse, he’s only portraying one side. If they do leave, the ensuing relationships are tenuous at best. Most implode under the guilt and deception they’ve created. Plenty of men are available but most are married or have girlfriends–they just want a fling. The Harvard MBA says: I’m actually working on a dating book, but because it hasn’t been released yet, I’ll try to provide the summary version and some key recommendations. With the declining marriage rate and the tendency for people to postpone starting a family, you’re in good company. Keep in shape, watch your weight, and take care of your appearance 6. Heck, where do all the single guys out there hang out?