found women do want more sex than they’re willing to admit.
When women self-report dating behavior, they tend to downplay any sexual interest.
Women who have sex quickly, like on the first date, are viewed as “easy and cheap” even in a modern sexually liberal society.
They live in a world of mixed messages, where naked, sexualized images of women are everywhere, according to Dr.
Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at California State University, Los Angeles.“[I]f a woman agrees to have sex on the first date because she wants to, her partner may make unfair attributions about her (even after asking for sex) that she is not relationship material and may be of suboptimal moral character,” Durvasula told in an email.
In most cases, she may be viewed as immoral, “easy,” or men may even assume she has other partners and does this with everyone.
These women earned between ,000 and ,999 a year, compared to the one percent of women earning less than ,000 annually who agreed.
The revolution also supported the notion that sex for fun shouldn’t be any more shameful for a woman than it is for a man.
So, you’ve caved into your primitive urge to have sex on the first date. The answer depends on age, the man, and the values of the couple.
For instance, if the couple is older, the man’s level of respect for a woman may diminish if she does have sex on the first date, according to Walfish.
In a first date setting, it creates emotional distance by keeping the physical intimacy and the heart separate.
A 2012 study published in the said having sex on the first date may harm relationships over the long-term.