So when the following month’s phone bill came and he again pulled the detail, I put on my private investigators hat and began digging.
I pulled cell phone bills for the prior year and found a large amount of phone calls to 1.800 sex/chat lines. I then found web history of looking at ads on craigs list as well as various phone calls and text to random cell numbers.
I’d rather he be addicted to anything other than sex, I think I could get past anything else.
Anyway, any insight, opinions or direction you could give would be very much appreciated!
I married my husband because I thought he was safe.The first year of my recovery did not see many changes in our relationship as I suspect he did not think the changes in me would stick but the last year had been good, and I believed we had a good shot of making a happy life together.And then he did two things that sent red flags up for me.1.) he opened the phone bill and gave me the summary page only, i.e.no phone detail red flag raised, but moved on with my day 2.) he stopped the mail when we went on an annual beach vacation, pro-activity not his strong suit.