A Controller has permanent personality characteristics that create this damage.
These are characteristics that they accept simply as the way they are and not a problem or psychological difficulty.
The following list is an attempt to outline the characteristics of a Controller and provide a manner in which women and men can identify potentially damaging relationships, before they are themselves severely damaged emotionally or even physically.
When a high number of these features are present, it’s not a probability or possibility, you A Controller will hurt you on purpose.Deep down inside though you begin to have this queasy feeling that tells you that it is way too soon for someone to be telling you that they love you, and want to spend the rest of their life with you.It does not make sense for one thing, and for another, normal, healthy relationships take much longer to develop.We hold our tempers in check, we let things go, and we give the "benefit of the doubt." This is called the "honeymoon period" and it can last as long as two years.So because most individuals always put on a happy face when first dating, it's difficult to determine what type of individual you are dating.