Handle-him help: Before you try to beat the info out of him, realize his "secret" may be something positive (like he booked a fun trip) or might not be about you.
You seemed kinda bummed." Maybe he'll spill his guts, but if not, let it go.Encourage those lovin' feelings in him by doing something sweet but sap-free, like ordering him a meat-loaded pizza or snuggling up on the couch to watch his team play...minus the whiny commentary. He Has Something to Hide If your man pauses midsentence and the tip of his tongue protrudes through his closed lips — almost as if he's sticking out his tongue — there's a chance he's self-censoring."Guys appreciate it when you do something with them that they love even though it's not your thing, because it shows you're willing to put their needs first," says Levkoff. "This reflex signals the speaker is feeling anxious, which is often how people feel when they're afraid they'll leak information," says Givens.As long as he's not giving off any "I'm pissed at you" vibes, it was probably nothing anyway.He Wants to Get Naked Say you're at a party or out at a bar with your guy and you notice that when you lock eyes with him, his peepers seem a little sleepy and droopy.