Chill with the idea that dating is complicated, and scary that we need to make it easy on men. The idea of letting a man pursue you might sound old-fashioned but consider this: if you’re taking the reigns from the man then you’re missing out on a key part of his personality. The way he communicates with you, and romances you, and tries to impress you.
All of those actions give you insight to his personality.
I know it’s exciting to like someone but you have to be patient in the process, and don’t feel like you have to make it happen. Don’t be so quick to assume that if this guy really liked you he would lock it down.
If you’re dating a man who isn’t calling you, or texting you, or trying to advance the relationship then you’re not dating the right guy.
Or even worse, settle for treatment that is less than what you deserve.
It’s often the case that the man is doing goes unappreciated. Think about it like this, it is perfectly ok to try to get to know anyone.
I understand wanting a relationship but if a man isn’t willing to assume some responsibility for making a relationship happen, then maybe that’s not the right man for you.
They lack the confidence, and they don’t trust the process.
Putting trust into the guy that you want to be exclusive with shouldn’t sound like a crazy concept.